Last friday was a cousin's wedding. Wedding means photos, bridal gowns and suits, Mercedes with cute couple of bears tied amongst a sea of lace, cakes and invitations, tea ceremony, two jumbo red candles and a chinese dinner. Throw in a couple of friends for support and add in relatives. Hire a photographer and a camera man. Taaa Daa you get a wedding.

But what defines the best wedding?

The invitation size? The dinner venue? The cost of the gowns? The price of the car? How many friends are in the picture? How many relatives attend the wedding? Or the honeymoon destination?

My aprents want a 200 strong ensemble of relatives, an efficient team of photographer, cameraman, friends and hotel staff. The venue is to be a 6star hotel with fancy horrible stingy food and smart ass attitude staff.

That's what they want la. More or less la. Though they dont say.

To me its the whole package. There are guys who go all out to propose. Candlelit dinner, soft music, driving to first date spots and going down on one knee. Then there are those who simply "Eh Siao eh, let's apply for HDB lei" and the SiaoEh really went with him.

I'm not specific about how my proposal should be. But definitely not keeping quite or telling me to move over to a HDB. I didnt waste my time on such attics. I invest time into quality. Of course candlelit dinners and shouting out his love for me is very very feasible and most probably will get me nodding my head. But I'm Mdm Wong's daughter. I prefer something solid. Something which says Your as precious as this".

Like diamonds. Big chucky diamonds. Or diamond will do. But big. When I say big, it means BIG big as in huge big, enmorous big. That's practical! That's reality!

Not that I dont wanna fulfil my parents' wish. But for me to be happy and satisfy my parents, I need a multi-millionaire. Whom HuiLinh seems to know one...Hm...