With the world changing, its not surprising to have more women wanting to find independence. Even when they are married no doubt.

I believe though every women wishes to be with a man who is not wishy washy, who has no qualms about treating them as an equal partner yet controls them to a certain extent. I can't say ALL. well... MOST then...

I for one won't like having to always make the decision on even the most mundane issues eg where to go, what to eat etc. It irritates me to shit whenever a guy tells me "up to you lor". Where's their "manly" attitude then?Its tiring to always make decisions, take the issue by hand. It'll be nice to sit back and share the burden.

Of course there are people who absolutely need the complete control. It's in their characters. But nto in mine. Not in MOST women I expect. If not, why are there rampant girls out there aspiring to be taitais without means of supporting themselves? They wish to rely on men if possible then. I don't mind belonging to this group.

Women are after all creatures who very much need protection. Protection not only financially. Emotionally as well. Family wise it'll be nice to enjoy having another person to shoulder the responsibilities. Well for me at least.

Another thing is we are after all living in Asian society. Women are still pretty much secondary compared to men in terms of work. There are new age women on the rise I can't deny. But I won't be part of them becuase I enjoy being commanded to a certain extent. Not to the point whereby my life is ocntrolled, but at least in terms of issues between us and my problems.

They call this type the "sensitive jocks". Now sensitive has this gayish connotation to it which I'm not very comfortable with. Girly guys can very well be my mates but not my bf. It just doesn't fit. I don't need another womanly character to host my life for me. It'll be almost like having another mother in life.

I call this type the NewAge men. Now I'm on a quest for one. Coz I am after all the kind of women society calls Little Woman.