Recently the topic of marriage keeps coming up, seriously, I do give it some thought one way or another. I've advocate a life of mistressing since god-knows-when. But belonging to someone who cares to set up family with you is entirely different.

My insistance at being Mistress is due to that fact that The-Other-Woman always enjoy the fruits of life. A husband doesn't stay faithful to a wife forever. Guys expect the women they marry to stay the same throughout their lives. The girl they marry was a beautiful well groom woman, & they expect it to last throughout the marriage. When the Wife doesn't keep up expectations, they start looking around for shorter skirts, tighter skins, darker make-up. What is the use of being a Wife then?

BUT my decision will change should I find a Man who:
1. can make me give up a life in the lap of luxury willingly, anything
to spend my days with him.
2. will induce the urge in me to have kids with him, though raising
one is difficult much less kidSSS
3. make me feel secure even when we're lost on foreign land, in
bleak cold weather.
4. offer me a 3-room flat which feels like a palace
5. manage to get pass my parents and not get discouraged in any sense
6. I can tolerate him having affairs after 5/6/... years of marriage
simply coz I cant stand to be away from him
7. remembers every little detail of me even when he's busy with
making a life for our family(the anniversaries, birthdays, kids)
8. pampers and indulge in me periodically simply b'coz I'm special
(gets me surprises which he notices from my glances at shops)
9. loves me enough to always want to give me the best
10. I can sleep with in the DARK(which I never did since eons)

The last reason is the most important by far. He'll be one milestone in my life I'll never want to get rid of. That will be one hell of a guy I'll marry.

[YouYang recommends water poloers. Hm.....I love a guy with a big black SUV of Lexus though. Anytime Baby!]